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 Excerpt from
How To
Write A Successful Online Profile That Gets Responses From The "Right"
Men
by Mimi Tanner
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This
class began when I wrote the following column. That started
a response that just keeps coming! As a result, I have
received stories from many women who have had ALL KINDS of
experiences with online dating, good and bad. In this Online
Dating Lab class, we’ll find out what real women are
doing that works in online dating. Here is the column
that started it all:
Online Dating – A Great Way to Get Your Dating Feet Wet
Again
Do you ever have to just force yourself to get out there and
meet men?
Well, if that's true for you, don't feel alone. There's
everything right about taking a break from love at times.
It's healthy to want someone in your life. But there are
times when you should take a break - and other times when
you should URGE yourself to meet new men.
When? Well, when you find you are losing interest in love.
When you are too discouraged for too long. OR - when you
really need to get your mind off of one particular man!
Those are all good reasons to get out there and meet men.
Whatever you do, don't fall for the myth that there are no
men out there. That is the craziest thing I ever heard - no
matter what your age.
First of all, if you are a Flirt at heart - and I think all
women have a flirt in them somewhere - then trust me, you
don't ever have to worry about a man shortage.
When you get in a Man-Rut of any kind, one suggestion to
find your way out of this rut is to visit an online dating
service. Just spend a little time on this - as
a way to get your dating feet wet again so you can re-enter
the waters.
Why? Because it's something you can do immediately and
safely. You can initiate (yes, you heard that right) a
friendship with a man with no risk at all - and just doing
that alone is very healthy. It wakes up certain parts of you
that you may not be in touch with right now.
It's also a great place to brush up your skills with men. I
recommend this as a first step to "getting out there" even
if you have no plans to take it very seriously. Just
see it as a place to make some new acquaintances.
You also might get some insight on what you may be doing
that needs to change. See it as a learning experience - an
experiment.
It's a numbers game, like anything else. When you have no
personal stake in how many men respond to you; when you take
your ego out of it, you can do yourself a lot of good.
When you have multiple men emailing you, then the laid-back
woman in you who has almost given up on dating will start to
come alive again.
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Secrets of Flirting With Men!
http://www.secrets-of-flirting.com
I
received SO many responses to this column - and one of them
became the inspiration for this class!
This
one really sparked my curiosity:
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Dear Mimi,
You are so right. After a 13-year marriage, I
didn't date for over a year. To get my feet wet,
I joined an online service. I was even was so
bold as to post a picture. Boy, the men came in
droves!
I was a little overweight and only had a head
shot on there. Once I started with the flirting
(yes, like riding a bike, it came back to me), I
had my initiative to lose weight and become the
young 40-something I knew I was deep inside.
I have had a very active dating life for the
past 2 years with 2 somewhat serious
relationships and a lot of dates and flirting,
and I love every minute of it. When I get into a
slump or start to feel down about it, I hop
right back on there and boom, many more are
available.
And yes, my 2 somewhat serious relationships
came from online dating.
I met a few "dogs" on there until I really
learned the ins and outs of screening, but most
of the men have been honorable, sweet and
honest. Good advice to all once again, Mimi.
Daisy
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Well!! As you can imagine, I just HAD to find out what it
was about "Daisy" that made men respond "in droves"!!
I interviewed Daisy at length, and she has been very
gracious in providing an enormous amount of information
that demonstrates what it takes to be successful in online
dating. You are sure to discover a wealth of ideas
and blueprints for your own online dating profile from what
she has to say, when you take the time to read this class
carefully! You’ll definitely want to try out MANY of the
exact things Daisy is doing online.
(End of excerpt.)
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