Should You EVER Sleep With Him on the First Date?

by Mimi Tanner, author of
How To Write a Successful Online Profile
and many more books

This is a subject that might ruffle some feathers, but I've got to say it.
 
So often I hear from women who have made one of the most basic mistakes with men that you can ever make.
 
They sleep with the man on the first date - sometimes even on the same day they first meet him (when there has been no date of any kind).
 
If you don't do anything else right when it comes to relationships, get THIS one thing right. 
 
Repeating:  if you don't do ANYTHING else right, get that one thing straight!!
 
Do I feel strongly about this?  Yes.
 
Are there ever any exceptions to this rule??
 
No.  Or as we say in Texas, "Not only no, but 'Hail, no'!"
 
Yes, I do have loyal readers who are in good relationships which did start out with this happening. And yes, not all relationships will fail if this happens. But this is extremely rare - and if you're counting on it happening, you're setting yourself up to be hurt. You do NOT need to let yourself in for this kind of pain. There is so much to consider - and these things should take far more than a few hours. Don't sleep with someone you do not even know.

In fact, counselor Bob Grant says that when you sleep with someone, you have a chemical bond with that man forever - and you know it's true. Bob Grant is the author of:

Sleeping with someone is an enormous emotional investment. If your beliefs protect you from making that investment without a marriage license, then so much the better for you!

Trust your friend Mimi on this one critical point and do NOT sleep with a man when you just met him or just started dating him.
 
You will never regret following this advice.

And yes, it is possible to recover if you have messed up with a guy - not easy, but possible.  We cover this exact scenario in my course "Man Mistake Eraser - How to Regain a Man's Interest"
 
With love,
Mimi Tanner
Author of Man Mistake Eraser - How to Regain a Man's Interest

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